Going out alone isn’t working. Get three days of coaching in the field.

Stop wondering what you’re doing wrong. Meet and approach women with a coach there to watch, give you immediate feedback, and help you make the adjustment on your very next interaction.

Three days in the field·Immediate feedback·Group or private

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New York, Miami, or Chicago

See how Bootcamp works

See what three days in the field look like, how your coach gives feedback between approaches, and what changes between your first day and your last.

Knowing what to do isn’t the same as being able to do it.

Bootcamp is built for men who need real reps with a coach there to see what actually happens.

You hesitate before you approach

You know you should walk over, but when the moment comes, you freeze or talk yourself out of it.

You go blank once you're in the conversation

Advice makes sense when you're reading it. Using it naturally in real time is different.

You can't tell what you're doing wrong

Tone, body language, timing, flirting, escalation. The details are difficult to diagnose from inside the interaction.

You want immediate correction

Instead of wondering afterward, you want a coach to tell you what happened while it's still fresh.

You learn by doing

You want concentrated practice, not another month of consuming information.

Need ongoing support instead?

If you want someone following your progress week after week, Mentorship is the better fit. If you have one specific problem you want diagnosed, a 1-on-1 Call may be enough.

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Three days. One feedback loop, repeated over and over.

You approach

You meet women in real environments with your coach there in the field.

Your coach watches what actually happens

Not what you remember happening later. He sees your approach, conversation, body language, timing, and where the interaction changes.

You get immediate feedback

Your coach tells you what worked, what didn't, and the most important thing to change.

You try it again

You apply the adjustment on the next interaction while it's still fresh.

You leave knowing what to keep working on

By the end, you've had concentrated reps, direct correction, and a clear understanding of what to practice after Bootcamp.

From the co-founder

Three days of action.Feedback you could never get alone.

I learned this without a coach. That meant I could approach a woman, get rejected, walk away, and still have no idea what had actually gone wrong.

Was it the opener? My body language? Did I miss a signal? Did I stay too long? Move too fast? Not move things forward at all?

When you’re inside the interaction, it’s incredibly difficult to see yourself clearly.

That’s what makes in-field coaching different.

A coach standing beside you sees what you can’t. You approach. He watches. You come back. He gives you one specific adjustment. Then you get another chance to apply it minutes later.

Approach. Feedback. Adjust. Repeat.

Do that enough times over three concentrated days and you’re no longer trying to understand dating in theory. You’re building the skill while you’re actually using it.

That’s the whole point of Bootcamp.

Best,MatthewCo-Founder & Head Coach

What men say after working with us

My biggest problem was never knowing what to say. It was actually walking over. Having a coach there got me out of my head and into the interaction. I approached more women in those three days than I had in the previous three months.

Tyler B.Minneapolis, USA

My first approach was terrifying. I remember standing there trying to convince myself to do it. By the third day, I'd see someone I wanted to meet and just walk over. I didn't expect that change to happen that quickly.

Sean K.Columbus, USA

I thought my conversations were the problem. My coach immediately noticed I was standing too far away, speaking too quietly, and looking uncomfortable. I never would have caught that on my own. Fixing those little things completely changed how the interactions felt.

Dmitri V.Tampa, USA

Women would talk to me, but everything always felt friendly. My coach could actually watch it happen and show me the exact moments where I was playing it too safe. By the end of the Bootcamp, my conversations felt completely different.

Wesley T.Kansas City, USA

I understood flirting in theory, but actually doing it with a woman in front of me was another story. Having a coach tell me where I could have been more playful, then trying it again ten minutes later, made it finally click.

Omar S.Detroit, USA

I used to stay in conversations way too long because I never knew when to ask for the number or suggest seeing her again. The Bootcamp taught me to recognize when an interaction is going well and actually do something with it.

Enzo D.Pittsburgh, USA

Before this, I'd approach someone and spend the rest of the night wondering what I did wrong. Here I could come straight back to my coach, get one thing to fix, and try it again on the next approach. That feedback loop was easily the most valuable part.

Andres F.San Antonio, USA

I always assumed meeting women during the day would feel awkward or forced. After three days of actually doing it with a coach, it started feeling surprisingly normal. Now coffee shops, stores, and just walking around the city feel like opportunities instead of missed chances.

Nico B.Salt Lake City, USA

Nightgame used to overwhelm me. There was so much happening that I never knew when to approach, how to flirt, or how to move things forward. Having a coach there in the environment helped me understand what I'd been missing.

Matias G.Las Vegas, USA

I was worried the group format would mean I wouldn't get enough attention, but I actually liked learning from the other guys. I got direct feedback on my own approaches and could also watch them get coached through problems I was dealing with too.

Colin R.St. Louis, USA

Three days of completely private coaching was intense in the best way. There was nowhere to hide and no generic advice. Every approach came back to what I specifically needed to fix, and we kept working on it until I could actually do it differently.

Sergio V.Baltimore, USA

The biggest thing I left with wasn't a collection of lines. I finally understood my own patterns: what I was doing well, where I kept losing interactions, and exactly what I needed to keep practicing after the Bootcamp ended.

Karim A.Raleigh, USA

Your Bootcamp coaches

Train with coaches who specialize in what happens in the field, from getting yourself to approach to creating attraction and moving the interaction forward.

Matthew Stevens

Co-Founder & Head Coach

More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide

Specializes in

Taking you from your first approach to advanced sets
Daygame and meeting women in everyday life
Nightgame in bars, clubs, and busy venues
Building natural confidence without canned routines

Jorge Valencia

Co-Founder & Head Coach

11 years coaching men to success with women

Specializes in

Advanced daygame and nightgame
Calibration, flirting, and creating attraction
Escalation, closing, and moving interactions forward
Attracting and dating high-quality women

Arjun Patel

Senior Coach

6 years coaching ambitious professionals and entrepreneurs

Specializes in

Dating for busy professionals and entrepreneurs
Natural confidence and authentic communication
Conversation and creating attraction
Turning daytime conversations into dates

Daniel Novak

Senior Coach

8 years helping men improve how they present themselves and connect with women

Specializes in

Making a strong first impression in person
Style and presence that make you stand out
Conversation that moves an interaction forward
Turning a quick chat into a booked date

Kevin Chen

Senior Coach

4 years coaching entrepreneurs and high performers

Specializes in

Dating with a demanding career
Conversation, flirting, and creating attraction
Turning approaches into dates
Building a sustainable dating and social life

Bootcamp in a nutshell

Included

3 days

In the field

Included

Real approaches

Not classroom exercises

Included

Immediate feedback

Between interactions

Included

Day + night

Real environments

Included

3:1 or private

Choose your level of attention

Included

3 cities

New York · Miami · Chicago

Choose your Bootcamp

Group Bootcamp

$3,000

Three days in the field
Maximum 3 students per coach
Real-time feedback
New York, Miami, or Chicago

Best if: You want hands-on coaching at the lower price and like learning alongside other students.

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Private Bootcamp

$4,000

Three days in the field
Fully 1-on-1
Every rep and every piece of feedback focused on you
New York, Miami, or Chicago

Best if: You want every rep and every piece of feedback focused entirely on you.

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Optional: Infield Filming · $250

Film one hour of your real approaches, then review the footage with your coach to catch body language, positioning, timing, and other things that are difficult to notice in the moment.

Add Infield Filming

What happens after you book

Choose your Bootcamp

Group or Private. Pay online. No application or sales call.

Choose your city and dates

We'll email you to coordinate New York, Miami, or Chicago around your availability.

Meet your coach before you start

A short intro call gets everything set before your three days in the field.

Frequently asked questions

What actually happens during the three days?

You approach real women in the field with your coach there. He watches what actually happens, tells you what worked, what didn't, and the most important thing to change, and you apply the adjustment on the next interaction. That loop repeats for three days.

Is Group Bootcamp really hands-on?

Yes. Group Bootcamp keeps a low 3:1 student-to-coach ratio, so you still get real attention and feedback on your own approaches.

Should I choose Group or Private?

Choose Group if you want the full three-day experience at the lower price and don't mind sharing coach attention. Choose Private if you want every minute of coaching focused entirely on you.

What skill level is Bootcamp for?

Every level. There is no skill floor. We specialize in approach anxiety. A lot of guys lock up when they see someone they want to talk to. The skill is learnable, and we meet you where you are. Coaching builds your confidence through real practice and feedback from a coach who watches you do it.

What cities do you run?

New York, Miami, and Chicago.

How are the three days scheduled?

The three days run back to back, and each day runs two sessions of four hours each. Your coach sets the exact times with you on your intro call and balances daygame and nightgame around what you need to work on most.

I have a full-time job. Will this interfere with work?

Bootcamps are scheduled around work. Training on weekdays begins in the evening so you don't have to take time off, and weekend sessions start in the afternoon. If you need a specific schedule, bring it up on your consultation call.

Can I add filming?

Yes. Add Infield Filming at checkout for $250, or buy it on its own. A coach films your approaches for an hour, then reviews the footage with you.

What happens after Bootcamp ends?

You leave with a clear picture of what's working, what still needs improvement, and exactly what to keep practicing on your own. If you want ongoing feedback afterward, you can continue with Mentorship: weekly calls, coach messaging, and a group chat with five coaches.