In-Person Dating Bootcamp
Get better with women. With a coach beside you.
Group: 3 days · $3,000 Private: 1, 2 or 3 days · From $1,750 New York · Miami
Stop replaying conversations in your head. Find out what to change while you're still out meeting women.
Approach, flirt, and move conversations toward dates with an experienced coach there to see what happens, give you direct feedback, and help you use it on your next interaction.
Daygame and nightgame. Eight hours of coaching per day. Small-group or fully private.
See the difference a coach can make.
Watch the approach, hear the feedback, and see what the student changes next.
This is where advice becomes something you can actually do.
From struggling to walk over to actually doing it.
My first approach was terrifying. I remember standing there trying to convince myself to do it. By the third day, I'd see someone I wanted to meet and just walk over. I didn't expect that change to happen that quickly.
Sean K.Columbus, USAYou don't need another night wondering what went wrong.
You can know the advice and still hesitate when you see a woman you want to meet.
You can start the conversation and still have no idea how to make it feel like more than a friendly chat.
Bootcamp puts a coach there for the part you can't learn by reading about it: doing it yourself.
Walk over instead of talking yourself out of it.
Work through the hesitation that keeps turning a woman you want to meet into someone you watched walk away.
Your coach is there when that moment happens, not a week later, when you're explaining why you didn't approach.
Know what to do after hello.
Keep the conversation moving without going blank, asking endless interview questions, or desperately searching for another line.
Work on how you respond to the woman in front of you, rather than trying to remember a script.
Create attraction, not just polite conversation.
Learn to show interest, flirt, and make the interaction feel different from a conversation she could have with anyone.
Get feedback on the moments where you play it too safe, force things, or miss a chance to connect.
Make your voice and body language work for you.
Your words are only part of what she experiences.
Your coach helps you recognize what your posture, positioning, eye contact, and delivery communicate, and what to adjust.
Recognize interest and take the next step.
Know when to keep talking, exchange numbers, suggest meeting again, or move on.
Stop letting promising interactions end simply because you weren't sure what to do next.
Use it during the day and at night.
Practice in everyday settings, bars, and nightlife. Learn how your approach changes with the environment without feeling like you need a different personality for each one.
Brand-new or already experienced, the coaching starts with what you're doing, not a generic starting point.
Approach. Get feedback. Use it while it's fresh.
Get into the interaction.
You meet women in real daygame and nightgame situations, with your coach there to help you work through the moments where you normally hesitate or get stuck.
Find out what actually happened.
Your coach watches your delivery, timing, conversation, and response to her interest.
You come back with questions. He gives you specific feedback on what worked and what needs to change.
Try it again.
Take the adjustment into your next interaction.
See how it feels. Notice what changes. Get coached again.
You're not collecting advice for some future night out.
You're putting it to work while you're already out.
What changes when someone can see what you're missing?
He could start conversations. He wanted more than a friendly chat.
Women would talk to me, but everything always felt friendly. My coach could actually watch it happen and show me the exact moments where I was playing it too safe. By the end of the Bootcamp, my conversations felt completely different.
Wesley T.Kansas City, USAThe practice carried over into everyday life.
I always assumed meeting women during the day would feel awkward or forced. After three days of actually doing it with a coach, it started feeling surprisingly normal. Now coffee shops, stores, and just walking around the city feel like opportunities instead of missed chances.
Nico B.Salt Lake City, USAPersonal feedback. A shared training experience.
I was worried the group format would mean I wouldn't get enough attention, but I actually liked learning from the other guys. I got direct feedback on my own approaches and could also watch them get coached through problems I was dealing with too.
Colin R.St. Louis, USAThree days focused entirely on his game.
Three days of completely private coaching was intense in the best way. There was nowhere to hide and no generic advice. Every approach came back to what I specifically needed to fix, and we kept working on it until I could actually do it differently.
Sergio V.Baltimore, USAMy biggest problem was never knowing what to say. It was actually walking over. Having a coach there got me out of my head and into the interaction. I approached more women in those three days than I had in the previous three months.
Tyler B.Minneapolis, USAI thought my conversations were the problem. My coach immediately noticed I was standing too far away, speaking too quietly, and looking uncomfortable. I never would have caught that on my own. Fixing those little things completely changed how the interactions felt.
Dmitri V.Tampa, USAI understood flirting in theory, but actually doing it with a woman in front of me was another story. Having a coach tell me where I could have been more playful, then trying it again ten minutes later, made it finally click.
Omar S.Detroit, USAI used to stay in conversations way too long because I never knew when to ask for the number or suggest seeing her again. The Bootcamp taught me to recognize when an interaction is going well and actually do something with it.
Enzo D.Pittsburgh, USABefore this, I'd approach someone and spend the rest of the night wondering what I did wrong. Here I could come straight back to my coach, get one thing to fix, and try it again on the next approach. That feedback loop was easily the most valuable part.
Andres F.San Antonio, USANightgame used to overwhelm me. There was so much happening that I never knew when to approach, how to flirt, or how to move things forward. Having a coach there in the environment helped me understand what I'd been missing.
Matias G.Las Vegas, USAThe biggest thing I left with wasn't a collection of lines. I finally understood my own patterns: what I was doing well, where I kept losing interactions, and exactly what I needed to keep practicing after the Bootcamp ended.
Karim A.Raleigh, USA
From the co-founder
The rejection wasn't the most frustrating part. Not knowing what to change was.
When I was learning game alone, I could spend a whole evening approaching and come home with the same questions.
Was it how I started?
Did I talk too much? Not show enough interest? Miss something she was trying to tell me?
I could replay the interaction all night and still have no useful answer.
So I'd change my opener, try another theory, and go out again.
Sometimes things went better. Sometimes they didn't. But I was still guessing.
That's what having a coach in the field changes.
He sees the hesitation before you approach. The conversation that becomes an interview. The interest you don't recognize. The moment you could have moved things forward.
Then you get to do something with that feedback, not next month, but while you're still out.
That's why we built Bootcamp around practice and personal correction.
You approach. We watch. We work through what happened. You try again with something specific to change.
Whether you're struggling to say hello or already getting numbers and dates, the work starts with your actual game.
You bring the willingness to take action. We bring the coaching that helps you get more from it.
Best,MatthewCo-Founder & Head Coach
Eight hours a day. Focused on what happens when you meet women.
Each training day includes two four-hour coaching blocks, covering daygame and nightgame in the mix that suits your group or private program.
Group Bootcamp includes 24 hours across three days. Private Bootcamp gives you 8, 16, or 24 hours, depending on the duration you choose.
01Approaching and conversation
Get through the hesitation before you walk over. Start the interaction, handle the first thirty seconds, and keep talking without falling into an interview.
Work on approaching women on their own and starting conversations when friends are around.
02Attraction and delivery
Show genuine interest, flirt, and communicate with confidence.
Work on your voice, eye contact, posture, and positioning. Learn to recognize mutual interest and comfort as an interaction develops.
03Numbers and dates
Recognize when an interaction is going somewhere and take the next step.
Work on exchanging numbers or Instagram, texting toward a date, and recognizing when an immediate date makes sense.
04Rejection and follow-through
Handle an interaction that doesn't go your way without letting it decide the rest of your day.
Leave with a written practice plan based on what your coach observed: what is working, what needs attention, and what to focus on next.
These aren't separate subjects saved for separate days. Your coach works on them as they come up in your interactions.
What's included
- In-person field coachingReal approaches in everyday settings and nightlife, not a weekend spent watching someone else teach.
- Direct feedback between interactionsUnderstand what your coach noticed and what to work on before you approach again.
- Your written practice planTake home a clear account of what to keep doing, what to change, and where to focus your next sessions out.
- Continued access to the community SlackStay connected to the community after your Bootcamp ends.
- Your choice of formatTrain in a group of no more than three students per coach, or work fully one-to-one.
New York or Miami. Daygame and nightgame. Personal feedback throughout your training.
Choose how you want to train.
Group Bootcamp
Three days.
Personal coaching, alongside other men putting in the work.
Get feedback on your own approaches and learn from the coaching happening around you.
- 24 hours of in-person training across three days.
- Maximum three students per coach.
- Daygame, nightgame, and direct feedback between interactions.
- Written practice plan and continued community Slack access.
Scheduled Miami weekends. New York available on request.
Choose Group when you want three concentrated days of field coaching and the shared experience of training with other students.
Private Bootcamp
Your coach. Your game. Your training days.
Work one-to-one on the situations, skills, and sticking points that matter most to you.
Your coach's attention is focused on your interactions throughout the program. Choose how much time you want to spend working together, from one to three days.
One day
Eight hours focused entirely on you.
A concentrated day of private field coaching, with direct feedback and the chance to put each adjustment into practice.
Two days
Sixteen hours to practice, adjust, and build.
Give yourself another day to return to the work, apply what you learned, and keep developing the parts that need attention.
Three days
Twenty-four hours of fully private coaching.
Time to work through your sticking points, practice across daytime and nightlife settings, and build on the feedback from one day to the next.
Longer private programs are available. Ask on a call or by email.
Every Private Bootcamp includes daygame and nightgame, your written practice plan, and continued community Slack access.
New York or Miami. Dates arranged with your coach.
Have specific dates in mind? Check private-date availability
See the details you can't notice from inside the conversation.
Add Infield Filming · $350
Add one hour of filming and review the footage with your coach.
See your positioning, body language, timing, and delivery instead of relying entirely on what you remember.
When your coach points something out, you can see the moment he means.
Choose your dates.
Group Bootcamp · Miami
Make a weekend of it.
Choose an available Friday-Sunday Bootcamp from the calendar.
Three consecutive days. Twenty-four hours of training. No more than three students per coach.
Upcoming Miami weekends
Group Bootcamp, Friday to SundayGroup coaching in New York is available on request.
Private Bootcamp
Choose your duration. Arrange the dates around your availability.
Select one, two, or three training days in New York or Miami. Longer private programs are available.
Private Bootcamps are also available on Group Bootcamp weekends, depending on availability. Please inquire for more details.
After booking, we coordinate your dates and confirm the schedule with your coach.
What happens after you book
Choose your format and dates.
For Group, select your scheduled weekend and complete your booking.
For Private, choose your duration, then coordinate the city and dates with us.
Get out there and train.
Approach, get feedback, and put it into practice during your coaching blocks.
Your coach works with what actually happens, not just the problem you thought you had before arriving.
Keep building after Bootcamp.
Leave with your written practice plan and continued community Slack access.
Your next night out doesn't have to start with another guess. You'll have specific work to build on.
Frequently asked questions
What actually happens during Bootcamp?
You meet and approach women in real environments with your coach there to observe and give feedback.
Between interactions, you work through what happened and the most important adjustment to make. Then you put it into practice on another approach.
Each training day includes two four-hour blocks. Group Bootcamp runs for three days; Private Bootcamp is available for one, two, or three days, and longer private programs are available.
Is this pickup artistry?
Bootcamp is in-person coaching for meeting women. You approach in real daygame and nightgame settings, and your coach watches and gives you feedback.
The work is on how you respond to the woman in front of you, not on remembering a script.
You practice showing genuine interest, flirting, and communicating with confidence, without feeling like you need a different personality for each setting.
Should I wait until I'm better before booking?
No prior approach experience is required.
Hesitating, going blank, and not knowing what to say are reasons to get coaching, not things you have to fix before you arrive.
Your coach starts with where you are now.
Do I have to approach on the first day, and what if I freeze?
No prior approach experience is required.
Freezing, hesitating, and going blank are what Bootcamp is for. Your coach is there when that moment happens, not a week later, when you're explaining why you didn't approach.
Getting through the hesitation before you walk over is a core part of the training, and your coach starts with where you are now.
I can already approach women. What would I get from this?
Getting yourself to approach is only one part of the skill.
You may want to improve flirting, handle groups, recognize interest, move conversations forward, or understand why promising interactions keep ending without a date.
Your coach can watch those moments as they happen and focus the work on what you're missing.
Why do this in person instead of taking a coaching call?
A call lets you discuss an interaction, review material, and get feedback afterward.
Bootcamp puts your coach in the environment with you. He can observe your delivery, positioning, timing, and the interaction itself. You can then apply his feedback while you're still out.
Choose Bootcamp when you want coaching alongside the practice, not only a conversation about it.
Is Group Bootcamp really hands-on?
Yes. The group is capped at three students per coach.
You receive feedback on your own approaches and conversations. You also get to learn from the coaching other students receive.
The twenty-four hours are group training hours, with the coach's attention shared across the group, not twenty-four hours of private instruction per student.
Should I choose Group or Private?
Choose Group for three days of coaching alongside other students, at a maximum three-to-one ratio.
Choose Private when you want the coaching attention focused entirely on you, with a choice of one, two, or three training days, and longer private programs available.
Both involve field practice and personal feedback. The difference is the format, duration, and how the coach's attention is allocated.
How many private days should I book?
One day gives you eight hours of concentrated private coaching.
Two days give you more time to return to the work and build on what you learned.
Three days give you time to practice, get corrected, and work across different situations.
Want more than three? Longer private programs are available. Ask on a call or by email.
Choose based on the time you can commit and how much in-person coaching you want, not because you need to reach a particular skill level before booking.
What cities do you run?
New York and Miami.
Miami has a published Group Bootcamp calendar. Group coaching in New York is available on request.
Private dates are arranged with your coach.
Private Bootcamps are also available on Group Bootcamp weekends, depending on availability. Please inquire for more details.
How is each day scheduled?
Each day includes two four-hour coaching blocks.
The program includes daygame and nightgame, with the mix arranged for your group or private training.
I have a full-time job. Will this interfere with work?
Scheduled Miami Group Bootcamps run Friday through Sunday, so check your Friday availability before booking.
Private dates are arranged with you. Plan to make the full eight training hours available on each day you book.
What if my plans change?
Check the booking terms before purchasing, and contact hello@coldapproach.io with questions about date changes.
For Private Bootcamp, use Check private-date availability when you have particular dates you need to work around.
Can I add filming?
Yes. Infield Filming is a $350 add-on.
It includes one hour of filming, with the footage reviewed alongside your coach so you can see the details being discussed.
What happens after Bootcamp ends?
You leave with a written practice plan based on your training: what is working, what needs attention, and what to focus on when you go out again.
You also keep access to the community Slack.
Do the results last once I'm home?
You leave with a written practice plan based on what your coach observed: what is working, what needs attention, and what to focus on when you go out again.
You also keep access to the community Slack after your training ends.
Because you try each adjustment while you're still out, you go home with changes you've already practiced, not only advice you've heard.
Do I keep the community after Bootcamp?
Yes. Your coach adds you to the community Slack, and that access continues after your training ends.
The next time you see her, have more than “what if.”
Stop leaving every interaction with the same unanswered questions.
Get out there with a coach who can watch what happens, tell you what to change, and help you put it into practice.
Real approaches. Personal feedback. Work you can build on.
Group: 3 days · $3,000 Private: 1, 2 or 3 days · From $1,750New York · Miami
