Three-Day Dating Bootcamp
Get better with women. Faster.
Group $3,000 · Private $4,000 New York, Miami, or Chicago
Learn to approach with confidence, create attraction, and turn conversations into dates, with a coach there in the field helping you put it into practice.
Three days of daygame, nightgame, and personal coaching. Not another weekend wondering what you should have done differently.
See what changes when a coach is there.
Watch the approach, the feedback, and what the student does differently next.
From struggling to walk over to actually doing it.
My first approach was terrifying. I remember standing there trying to convince myself to do it. By the third day, I'd see someone I wanted to meet and just walk over. I didn't expect that change to happen that quickly.
Sean K.Columbus, USA
Knowing what to do isn’t the same as being able to do it.
Bootcamp is built for men who need real reps with a coach there to see what actually happens.
Stop hesitating when you see a woman you want to meet.
Work on the moment that keeps stopping you: walking over and starting the conversation instead of talking yourself out of it.
Know what to say after hello.
Learn to keep the interaction moving without going blank, asking endless interview questions, or searching your memory for the next line.
Create attraction, not just a friendly conversation.
Work on flirting, delivery, and the difference between having a pleasant chat and making the interaction feel like something more.
Make your body language and voice work for you.
Your coach helps you recognize what your posture, positioning, eye contact, and tonality are communicating, and where they are working against you.
Know when to move things forward.
Learn to recognize interest and take the next step, whether that means continuing the conversation, exchanging numbers, or suggesting a date.
Use the skill during the day and at night.
Practice in real environments, from everyday encounters to bars and nightlife, with coaching built around the situations you struggle with.
Brand-new or already experienced, the work starts with your game, not a generic starting point.
This time, you’re not figuring it out alone.
Get out there.
You approach women in real daygame and nightgame situations, with your coach there to help you work through the moments where you normally hesitate or get stuck.
Get coached on what actually happened.
Your coach watches the interaction and gives you direct feedback on the details you might miss yourself: your delivery, timing, flirting, and what happened when the conversation changed.
Put it to work immediately.
You take that adjustment into the next interaction. Then you build on it again.
You’re not saving advice for some future night out.
You’re using it while you’re already out meeting women.
What men say after working with us
He could start conversations. He needed to create attraction.
Women would talk to me, but everything always felt friendly. My coach could actually watch it happen and show me the exact moments where I was playing it too safe. By the end of the Bootcamp, my conversations felt completely different.
Wesley T.Kansas City, USAIt carried over into everyday life.
I always assumed meeting women during the day would feel awkward or forced. After three days of actually doing it with a coach, it started feeling surprisingly normal. Now coffee shops, stores, and just walking around the city feel like opportunities instead of missed chances.
Nico B.Salt Lake City, USAPersonal coaching, even in a group.
I was worried the group format would mean I wouldn't get enough attention, but I actually liked learning from the other guys. I got direct feedback on my own approaches and could also watch them get coached through problems I was dealing with too.
Colin R.St. Louis, USAThree days focused entirely on his game.
Three days of completely private coaching was intense in the best way. There was nowhere to hide and no generic advice. Every approach came back to what I specifically needed to fix, and we kept working on it until I could actually do it differently.
Sergio V.Baltimore, USAMy biggest problem was never knowing what to say. It was actually walking over. Having a coach there got me out of my head and into the interaction. I approached more women in those three days than I had in the previous three months.
Tyler B.Minneapolis, USAI thought my conversations were the problem. My coach immediately noticed I was standing too far away, speaking too quietly, and looking uncomfortable. I never would have caught that on my own. Fixing those little things completely changed how the interactions felt.
Dmitri V.Tampa, USAI understood flirting in theory, but actually doing it with a woman in front of me was another story. Having a coach tell me where I could have been more playful, then trying it again ten minutes later, made it finally click.
Omar S.Detroit, USAI used to stay in conversations way too long because I never knew when to ask for the number or suggest seeing her again. The Bootcamp taught me to recognize when an interaction is going well and actually do something with it.
Enzo D.Pittsburgh, USABefore this, I'd approach someone and spend the rest of the night wondering what I did wrong. Here I could come straight back to my coach, get one thing to fix, and try it again on the next approach. That feedback loop was easily the most valuable part.
Andres F.San Antonio, USANightgame used to overwhelm me. There was so much happening that I never knew when to approach, how to flirt, or how to move things forward. Having a coach there in the environment helped me understand what I'd been missing.
Matias G.Las Vegas, USAThe biggest thing I left with wasn't a collection of lines. I finally understood my own patterns: what I was doing well, where I kept losing interactions, and exactly what I needed to keep practicing after the Bootcamp ended.
Karim A.Raleigh, USAYour Bootcamp coaches
Train with coaches who specialize in what happens in the field, from getting yourself to approach to creating attraction and moving the interaction forward.
Matthew Stevens
Co-Founder & Head Coach
More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide
Specializes in
- Taking you from your first approach to advanced sets
- Daygame and meeting women in everyday life
- Nightgame in bars, clubs, and busy venues
- Building natural confidence without canned routines
Jorge Valencia
Co-Founder & Head Coach
11 years coaching men to success with women
Specializes in
- Advanced daygame and nightgame
- Calibration, flirting, and creating attraction
- Escalation, closing, and moving interactions forward
- Attracting and dating high-quality women
Arjun Patel
Senior Coach
6 years coaching ambitious professionals and entrepreneurs
Specializes in
- Dating for busy professionals and entrepreneurs
- Natural confidence and authentic communication
- Conversation and creating attraction
- Turning daytime conversations into dates
Daniel Novak
Senior Coach
8 years helping men improve how they present themselves and connect with women
Specializes in
- Making a strong first impression in person
- Style and presence that make you stand out
- Conversation that moves an interaction forward
- Turning a quick chat into a booked date
Kevin Chen
Senior Coach
4 years coaching entrepreneurs and high performers
Specializes in
- Dating with a demanding career
- Conversation, flirting, and creating attraction
- Turning approaches into dates
- Building a sustainable dating and social life
From the co-founder
Don’t spend another year learning the hard way.
The most frustrating part of learning game alone wasn’t just rejection.
It was coming home without knowing what I should have done differently.
I could replay the conversation all night. Change my opener. Try another theory the following weekend.
But I was still guessing.
That’s the advantage of having an experienced coach there with you.
He sees the moment you hesitate. The conversation that turns too friendly. The opportunity you don’t recognize. And instead of leaving you to work it out months later, he helps you change it while you’re still in the field.
That is what we built Bootcamp around.
Three days focused on your game. Real women, real conversations, and a coach helping you work on the skills that matter.
Not just getting yourself to say hello. Creating attraction. Flirting. Recognizing when things are going well and knowing what to do next.
You bring the willingness to take action.
We bring the coaching that helps you get more from it.
Best,MatthewCo-Founder & Head Coach
24 hours of in-person coaching across three days.
Two four-hour sessions a day, usually in this shape. Your coach balances daygame and nightgame around what you need to work on most.
All four parts, every day
Approach, attraction, numbers and dates, and follow-through, coached in the field each day.
Daygame and night game
In whatever mix suits the men in your group.
Two sessions a day
Feedback after every set, and a written plan to take home.
Choose your Bootcamp
Three consecutive days·
Group Bootcamp
Train with a coach, and alongside other men taking their game seriously.
Three days of daygame and nightgame with a maximum of three students per coach. Get personal feedback on your own interactions and learn from the coaching happening around you.
- 24 hours of in-person coaching across three days.
- Three days of in-person training.
- Maximum three students per coach.
- Direct feedback on your approaches and conversations.
- Scheduled Miami weekends; New York and Chicago on request.
Best for men who want concentrated field coaching and the shared experience of training with other students.
Buy Group Bootcamp ›Private Bootcamp
Three days focused entirely on your game.
Work one-to-one with your coach on the situations, skills, and sticking points that matter most to you. The coaching attention is yours throughout the program.
- 24 hours of in-person coaching across three days.
- Three days of fully private coaching.
- Daygame and nightgame.
- Personal feedback focused on your interactions.
- New York, Miami, or Chicago, with dates arranged together.
Best for men who want one-to-one attention throughout the weekend.
Buy Private Bootcamp ›For $1,000 more, make the entire Bootcamp one-to-one.
See what your coach sees.
Add Infield Filming, $250
Add one hour of filming and review your approaches with your coach. See the body language, positioning, timing, and delivery that are difficult to notice while you’re in the conversation, and understand exactly what your coach is pointing out.
Bootcamp dates
Choose your Miami weekend.
Select an available Friday-Sunday Bootcamp below.
Upcoming Miami weekends
Group coaching in New York and Chicago is available on request.
Choose New York, Miami, or Chicago. After booking, we coordinate your three consecutive training days and confirm the schedule with your coach.
What happens after you book
Choose your Bootcamp
Group: Choose the weekend, complete your booking, meet your coach on the intro call. Private: Complete your booking, coordinate the city and dates, meet your coach on the intro call.
Meet your coach before you start
A short intro call gets everything set before your three days in the field.
Make your next weekend count, too.
Leave with a clear practice plan based on what your coach saw during Bootcamp: what is working, what needs attention, and where to focus when you go out again. You are not starting over when the three days end. You are building on the work you have already done.
Frequently asked questions
What actually happens during the three days?
You approach real women in the field with your coach there. He watches what actually happens, tells you what worked, what didn't, and the most important thing to change, and you apply the adjustment on the next interaction. That loop repeats for three days.
Should I wait until I'm better before booking?
No. Bootcamp starts from where you are now. A beginner may need help getting into conversations and staying in them. An experienced student may need to work on attraction, delivery, or moving things forward. Your coach works on the skills that are relevant to you.
I can already approach women. What would I get from this?
Approaching is only the beginning. Your coach can work with you on flirting, creating attraction, reading the interaction, handling groups, and taking the next step. The goal is not simply more approaches. It is getting better at what happens during them.
Why do this in person instead of taking a coaching call?
In-person coaching lets your coach see your game as it happens: your voice, body language, timing, and the other person's response. You can then work on the adjustment during the next interaction, rather than waiting until the next time you go out.
What skill level is Bootcamp for?
Every level. There is no skill floor. We specialize in approach anxiety. A lot of guys lock up when they see someone they want to talk to. The skill is learnable, and we meet you where you are. Coaching builds your confidence through real practice and feedback from a coach who watches you do it.
Is Group Bootcamp really hands-on?
Yes. Group Bootcamp keeps a low 3:1 student-to-coach ratio, so you still get real attention and feedback on your own approaches.
Should I choose Group or Private?
Choose Group if you want concentrated field coaching and the shared experience of training with other students. Choose Private if you want one-to-one attention throughout the weekend. The difference is the coaching format and attention.
What cities do you run?
New York, Miami, and Chicago.
How are the three days scheduled, and what's included?
Group Bootcamp takes one of the upcoming Miami weekends, Friday to Sunday. Private Bootcamp runs on three consecutive days in New York, Miami, or Chicago, arranged with you after you book; if you need to plan travel first, check private-date availability with us before you pay. Each day runs two sessions of four hours each, 24 hours of in-person coaching across the three days. Your coach sets the exact times with you on your intro call and balances daygame and nightgame around what you need to work on most.
The price covers the three days of coaching, a short intro call with your coach before you start, and your written practice plan at the end.
I have a full-time job. Will this interfere with work?
Bootcamps are scheduled around work. Training on weekdays begins in the evening so you don't have to take time off, and weekend sessions start in the afternoon. If you need a specific schedule, bring it up on your intro call.
What if my plans change?
Let us know as early as you can. If it's 30 or more days before your start, you can move your Bootcamp once to a future date at no cost. If it's 14 to 29 days before your start, you can also move it once.
Can I add filming?
Yes. Infield Filming is a separate $250 purchase: add it with the button under the packages, alongside your Bootcamp or on its own. A coach films your approaches for an hour, then reviews the footage with you.
What happens after Bootcamp ends?
You leave with a clear picture of what's working, what still needs improvement, and exactly what to keep practicing on your own. If you want ongoing feedback afterward, you can continue with Mentorship: weekly calls, coach messaging, and a group chat with five coaches.
Do I keep the community after Bootcamp?
Yes. Your coach adds you to the private community Slack, and you keep it after the three days.
The next time you see a woman you want to meet, don’t leave it at “what if.”
Spend three days working on the confidence, conversation, and attraction skills that change what happens next, with a coach there to help you put them into practice.
Choose your Bootcamp ›Group $3,000 · Private $4,000
New York, Miami, or Chicago
