A good bio says where you are, what you do in plain words, one detail only you could write, and what you want, in up to 300 characters. Bumble suggests one to three sentences. Write it in the language you will actually chat in, and keep it specific enough that a woman reading it has something to answer.

What a bio can and cannot do

No source we trust gives firm rules about what women in India want from a Bumble bio, so we will not invent any. What holds in any country is how a bio works. Your photos get her to stop, and the bio decides whether she thinks, "I could talk to him."

Bumble's help center sets the limit at 300 characters. It says a short bio is more likely to be read in full, and it suggests sharing fun or unique details, what you are looking for and your interests. Three sentences is the working size.

Say where you are and how you talk

Name your city. Bumble lists India among the countries where its distance filter is offered, so a woman can set how far away she looks, and a city name saves her guessing. Name the city, not your street or your building.

Write in the language you will actually use in the chat. If you talk to friends in English, write in English. If your real voice mixes languages, one natural line of that mix can sound like you, as long as she can follow it. A bio in one style followed by a chat in another reads like two different men.

Say what you want in a few honest words

a dating coach's point on any app is that a page attracts whatever it announces. A page that reads like a man after something casual draws that, and a page that says you want something real draws women who want the same.

So say it plainly and calmly. "Here for something real, starting with a good first date" is enough. A list of conditions is not. Lines like "no drama, no games" tell her you expect the worst, and they do not make you look discerning.

Three bios to borrow the shape of

These were invented for this article. They are not real clients, and no result is claimed for them. Each fits inside the 300 character limit.

A software engineer: "Backend engineer in Bengaluru who still gets lost one street from home. Weekends are filter coffee and one long walk. Looking for someone to argue about the best dosa place, then settle it over breakfast."

An architect: "Run a small architecture practice in Pune. Slow to answer during site visits, fast at planning a good evening. I cook exactly one dish well, and it is not biryani. Here for something real."

A doctor: "Doctor in Hyderabad, so I have heard every excuse for skipping breakfast. Good at old film trivia, bad at chess. Tell me your favorite old song and I will tell you whether we should meet."

None of them lists adjectives. Each gives a place, a plain fact about the work, a small true detail and something she can reply to.

What to leave out

  • A row of adjectives. "Loyal, ambitious, caring, funny" reads like a form, and she cannot answer any of it.
  • What Bumble already shows. The app has fields for your job and education, so do not spend characters repeating them.
  • Contact details and your workplace. Keep your number, your social handles and your company name out of the bio, for your own safety.
  • Complaints. Anything about hating the app or being tired of games makes you sound like hard work before she has said hello.
  • The line every man writes. "A gentleman who knows how to treat a lady" has been read a hundred times and tells her nothing about you.

Let the rest of the page work with it

The bio is one part of the page, not all of it. Bumble also gives you up to three prompts and up to five interests, and your photos carry a lot on their own.

Divide the work. Let the photos show how you look and where you spend your time. Let the prompts carry your opinions. Let the bio give the plain facts and a hook, so that each part says something different.

Then check how it reads in place. Open your own page as another member sees it, because a bio reads differently under your photos than it does in an empty text box. If the first thing a stranger would say to you is easy to guess, the bio is doing its job.