The black circle around your photo in Bumble's Profile tab is a completion meter. Bumble says it shows what percentage of your profile is complete. It appears in Bumble's advice about filling out your profile, so it moves as you fill in the parts you skipped.
Where the circle is and what it measures
Open the Profile tab and look at your own photo. The black circle around it is the meter. Bumble's page on standing out describes it in one line: it shows what percentage of your profile is complete.
Complete and good are different things. A man can fill every section and still have a page women pass on in two seconds. Use the circle as a to-do list, not as a score.
What Bumble asks you to fill in
The circle comes up in Bumble's advice to fill out your profile, which mentions details like your job, your education and even your Spotify favorites. The same page lists the other things Bumble wants to see:
- A bio that says what you are looking for, your interests and maybe a fun fact.
- Recent, clear photos that feature you.
- Photo Verification, so people know you are really you.
- Prompts that show your personality.
- Interest Badges that reflect you, including a Favorite Interest.
The About you section, under Edit profile, holds your work, education, location and hometown. A second area, More about you, covers things like height, star sign and family plans.
Bumble's Discover tab gives one more reason to finish the job. It suggests people with similar interests and dating goals, and Bumble's page on it says that to get the most out of Discover, you should complete your profile and show what you are into.
Photos still matter most
Before you chase a full circle, look at your photos. The coaching material is blunt about the order. Photos decide whether she looks any further, and a woman who does not like your first photo never reaches your bio.
Lead with a clear, recent photo of your face. Bumble's own advice on photos asks for bright, well-lit shots with your face clearly visible and no heavy filters. After that, add photos that show different parts of an ordinary week.
Your bio and profile prompts come next
Once your photos are working, the written parts are what turn a like into a conversation. Bumble says a good bio gives potential matches reasons to start a conversation with you, and it describes prompts as a way to show off your personality.
Keep the bio to two or three plain sentences: what you are looking for, something you actually do, and one easy thing for her to ask about. "Here for something that lasts. Weekends are hiking or cooking for too many friends. Tell me your go-to karaoke song" is enough. Bumble lets you add a few prompts. Use them for answers she can react to in one line. "The best tacos in this city are at a gas station, and I can prove it" gives her something to say. "I love to laugh" gives her nothing.
Tap the circle to see what she sees
Bumble's page on prompts says that if you open the Profile tab and tap your picture in the circle, you get a preview of how your profile appears to others. It shows your photos, your bio and your other details.
Use it every time you change something. Read your page the way a woman would, top to bottom, quickly. If nothing on it would make you curious about the man, a full circle will not save it.
A second pair of eyes helps here. The coaching material recommends having someone else look at your page, ideally someone who knows what works. Show the preview to a friend who will be honest, and ask what she would guess you do on a weekend. If her guess is way off, your page is telling the wrong story.
A full circle will not make you stand out
Filling in sections is the easy part. The coaching material suggests getting your page most of the way complete rather than answering every field. A page crammed with every detail can look like you are trying too hard.
So fill in what helps her picture your life: your job, where you live, what you do on a Saturday. Skip anything that is filler. A partly empty circle around strong photos and a sharp bio beats a full circle around a weak page.
Leave out what you would not say on a first date
Some fields are more personal, such as religion or political views. Bumble says it is completely up to you whether to include them. It also says that other people can see and share what you add, so only put down what you would be happy to talk about over a drink.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.