Hinge gives every member a free Rose each week. Free Roses do not accumulate, so a week you skip is a Rose you lose: next week you still have just the weekly one, not a spare saved up. Anything beyond the weekly Rose, you buy.
How the weekly Rose works
Hinge's help pages say the same thing in two places. Every member gets a free Rose each week, and free Roses do not accumulate. Hinge's own summary is use it or lose it.
That makes the free Rose behave differently from the ones you pay for. A purchased Rose waits in your account until you use it. The free one belongs to its week. Leave it unused and it does not roll forward.
Where to see whether it is waiting
Tap your profile photo in the lower right corner of the app to open your Profile Hub. Your available Boosts and Roses show as small numbers in the upper right of each icon.
Hinge also shows your available Roses each time you send an outgoing like. That is handy, because it puts the count in front of you at the moment you are choosing between a like and a Rose.
If the count reads zero and you still want to send one, tapping the Rose icon at that point offers you more to buy.
Getting more than the free one
Hinge sells Roses in bundles of a few different sizes. You can buy them from the Rose icon once you have used what you hold. Hinge's page on purchases describes a second route too. Tap your photo icon in the lower right corner, then tap the Rose icon just above the row of icons at the bottom of the screen.
Two things are worth knowing first. Purchased Roses do not expire until you use them. And Hinge's refund page lists Roses among the virtual items it treats as final and nonrefundable, so the money is spent the moment you tap.
You do not need to buy any to get real value from Roses. The free one, spent well every single week, adds up to a steady run of chances with women an ordinary like would struggle to reach.
Spend it every week
A free Rose that goes unused is pure waste. It costs you nothing to send and something to forget.
The simplest fix is to decide in advance when it goes out. Some men send it the first time they open the app in a new week, on the woman who most catches their attention. Others wait a few days and then spend it on the best woman they have seen so far. Either approach works. What does not work is meaning to send it and discovering the week has already turned.
Who should get it
The free Rose is worth the most where an ordinary like would struggle.
Standouts is built for it. Hinge describes that feed as people catching the most attention on the app, and it only accepts Roses. So the weekly free Rose is your way into it without paying anything. Hinge also says a Rose increases your chances of matching with someone who is getting a lot of attention.
In Discover, give it to the woman you would genuinely be happiest to meet, not the one who looks most likely to say yes. A like already handles the easy cases. The Rose is for the reach.
And never spend it on a woman who has already liked you. She is waiting in your Likes You tab, and matching with her costs nothing: tap her, tap the chat icon, and send a message or tap Match.
Make the free Rose count
A weekly allowance this small makes what goes with it matter. Hinge lets you add an optional comment when you send a Rose, and you should use it every time.
Pick one thing she wrote or showed and react to it the way you would out loud. A question works, so does a light tease or a guess about the story behind a photo. Skip the compliment about her looks, which she has already heard more often than she can remember.
Then look at your own card through her eyes. The Rose puts you at the top of her Likes You screen, and she will give your first photo and your first line a few seconds before deciding. A clear shot of your face in daylight and an answer that sounds like a person talking are what turn that top spot into a match.
Written by Matthew Stevens, Co-Founder & Head Coach. More than half a decade coaching men across the US and worldwide.
Everything here comes out of real coaching work: the approaches, dates, texts and profiles we go through with the men we coach.