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In person

Three days in the field with a coach.

Live coaching while you approach women in real situations. Video review of every interaction. A coach catches the exact mistake in the moment so you can fix it and try again, the same day. Three days beats three years of learning alone.

What's included

Everything for a complete weekend.

Live coaching while you approach, in real time

Both Nightgame and Daygame

Inner game and approach-anxiety training

Small groups, run in five cities

Video review of your real approaches

A framework for game you keep after the weekend

Where we run bootcamps.

We organize bootcamps in five cities throughout the year. Small groups, consistent dates, and coaches who know your game by the end of day one.

New YorkMiamiLos AngelesLas VegasChicago

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How it works

What happens each day.

Day 1Foundations

Foundations and first approaches

We start with the mental game. You learn what approach anxiety actually is and the framework to move through it. Then you practice the opener: what you say, how you say it, why it matters. Once you have the structure down, you get in the field for your first approaches. Matthew watches, films, and gives you real feedback on what you did right.

Day 2Field Work

In the field with filmed feedback

You spend the day running approaches in daygame and nightgame settings. Matthew wingmans with you, watches your interactions, and films them. You see exactly how you come across to women. After the sessions, we review the footage together. You notice what you're doing that works. You see where you hesitate or leave value on the table. You learn to calibrate in real time.

Day 3Planning

Dates, digital, and your go-forward plan

We cover the moves that happen after you get the number: how to text, how to set up a date that sticks, what to do on the date itself. We work through your profile photos and make sure they send the right signal. By day three's end, you have a specific plan for the next 90 days. You know which situations to prioritize, which sticking points to focus on, and exactly how to practice alone. You'll also get a follow-up call with Matthew after the program to keep you on track.

The curriculum

Master the complete game.

How to beat approach anxiety so the first open feels natural

What to say in the first 30 seconds and why it works

How to show genuine interest without trying too hard

Getting phone numbers and Instagram handles in the field

Setting up dates over text that actually happen

Instant dates: when to suggest them and how to make it easy for her

Building physical comfort through touch and escalation

Making out without the interaction feeling forced

Turning dates into sex, not leaving it to chance

How to handle rejection so it doesn't throw you off

Never running out of things to say

Solving logistics: apartment, timing, her comfort level

High-status communication: how you carry yourself matters

Building a personalized plan for after you leave

Keep going with 1-on-1 online coaching.

The bootcamp is just the start. After your in-person program ends, continue with personalized 1-on-1 online coaching and mentorship. Work through the sticking points that come up as you practice, get accountability from someone who knows your game, and keep pushing toward your goals. You don't have to stop when the weekend ends.

Common questions

Everything you need to know.

What if I have never approached before?
Perfect. Day 1 starts with the foundations. We teach you the framework, you practice in a safe setting, then you get real reps. By the end of the weekend you'll have dozens of actual approaches under your belt and direct feedback from a coach on each one.
Will I be doing approaches alone or with the coach?
Matthew will be with you the whole time. He wings with you, watches, films, and gives you feedback between sets. You're not flying blind. He's right there correcting you in real time.
What's the group size?
Small groups. Typically 3-6 men per bootcamp. Big enough to have peers and energy, small enough that you get real attention from Matthew and plenty of filmed feedback.
Do you offer bootcamps outside these five cities?
Right now we run bootcamps in New York, Miami, Los Angeles, Las Vegas, and Chicago. If you're interested in a bootcamp in another city, apply and we can discuss custom options.
What if I can't make the dates?
Apply for coaching and mention your availability. We run bootcamps regularly and may have dates coming up that work better for you.
Can I do 1-on-1 coaching instead of the bootcamp?
Yes. The bootcamp is intensive and in-person, so the feedback happens fast. But 1-on-1 online coaching works too, it's just slower because you're getting feedback between video calls instead of in real time. Both work. Bootcamp is faster.

Ready to transform your game.

A three-day bootcamp beats months of learning alone. Apply for coaching to talk through what you need and find the right program for you.

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