Pricing

Pay for the moment you keep replaying.

Maybe it is the walk-by you talked yourself out of, the date that turned polite, or the conversation that never got warm. Match the help to that exact moment: read the fix, train the skill, review the app bottleneck, or have a coach watch the pattern.

Subscriptions

Choose the ongoing help that keeps the work natural.

Use the library when you need the mistake named in writing. Use app review only when the bottleneck is a profile, message, or date plan. Use advisory when weekly decisions should be reviewed together.

Recommended
After the moment passes

Pattern Library

$19.99

/month

For the moment after something cools off and you want to know what changed. Use the library to name the mistake before paying for hands-on review.

  • All paid articles
  • New practical writing every week
  • 10% off courses and coaching from your account
  • Cancel anytime
App support

App Review

$350

/month

For the app-specific work: profile photos, prompts, messages, and date prep. Use it when the phone is the bottleneck, not the center.

  • Message review: options with the reason
  • Profile Photos: 700+ photo compositions
  • Date Prep: public-source context before the date
  • Cancel anytime
Delegate the decisions

Full-loop advisory

$15,000

/month

For someone who wants profile setup, photo choices, app activity, and weekly decisions reviewed while real-world practice stays central.

  • Profile setup and app review
  • Photo testing and profile review
  • Weekly review with the advisory team
  • High-volume monthly app usage included

One-time

Resolve one situation without starting a subscription.

Use a course when the same situation keeps returning. Use coaching when a senior coach should read the real interaction with you.

Repeatable fix

per course · lifetime access

Courses

$199

Use a course when the same situation keeps returning and you want the technique to sound like you before the next attempt.

  • Step-by-step lessons with real examples
  • Workbooks, practice prompts, and reference sheets
  • Subscribers get 10% off
Coach review

per call, week, or weekend

Coaching

$200 to $3,500

Use coaching when a senior coach should review the interaction timeline and make the missing move fit your personality.

  • Private review call: $200 / hour
  • Immersion: $2,000 (7 days)
  • Bootcamp: $3,500 (3 days)
  • Subscribers get 10% off from your account

All prices in USDCheckout via Stripe7-day unconditional refund on any course

Questions

Choose once, then get back to the moment.

Most questions come down to whether you need to name the mistake, practice the situation, have a coach read it with you, or review the active app bottleneck. For anything specific, write to hello@coldapproach.io and we'll answer in a day.

What's actually in the Pattern Library?
All paid articles covering approaches, conversations, first dates, social settings, app bottlenecks, and higher-stakes moments, plus new practical writing each week. Use it to name the mistake before paying for hands-on review.
How does the 10% subscriber discount work?
Active article subscribers get 10% off one-time courses and coaching when they buy from inside their account. The discount applies to those one-time purchases only.
Is app review included with the library?
No. The library helps you study the recurring mistake on your own. App Review looks at the current thread, photo set, profile, or date context in front of you before you act.
Are the courses one-time or subscription?
One-time. A course includes lifetime access to the lesson path and its reference material. First Lines and Replies is the smaller starter course.
What is included in coaching?
A senior coach reviews the interaction timeline with you, debriefs the moments that matter, and gives specific next adjustments while the details are fresh.
How does coaching work?
Private coaching calls are booked inside the app. Bootcamp and Immersion start with a fit call so we can confirm the level of review before scheduling.
Can I cancel?
Yes. Cancel from your account settings. Access stays active through the end of the current billing period.