Tradeoffs before structure
Understand the capacity, honesty, and time this requires before you invite anyone into it.
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What the structure asks of you
3:30
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Capacity, honesty, and consistency
3:00
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A real self-check before you start
2:30
A course on ethical non-monogamous relationship structure: clear disclosure, scheduling, jealousy, holidays, and ending a relationship without creating unnecessary harm.
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17 lessons
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Understand the capacity, honesty, and time this requires before you invite anyone into it.
What the structure asks of you
3:30
Capacity, honesty, and consistency
3:00
A real self-check before you start
2:30
02
Say the relationship model early, clearly, and without turning disclosure into a negotiation.
When to disclose
2:50
How to disclose with steadiness
3:30
Clear words without overselling
2:30
Respecting a clear no
2:50
03
Use calendars, weekends, holidays, and group events to reduce ambiguity instead of creating hidden competition.
A sustainable weekly cadence
3:00
Holidays, milestones, and shared time
3:00
Group events and shared friends
2:30
When schedules collide
2:30
04
Notice emotional friction early, offer reassurance without bargaining, and handle your own insecurity directly.
Reading the early signs
3:00
Reassurance that stays honest
3:00
Your own jealousy and what to do with it
3:30
05
End one relationship clearly while taking responsibility for the effect on the wider structure.
Reading the ending early
2:30
Ending with clarity and respect
3:00
The effect on the wider structure
2:50
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