> Markdown version of https://coldapproach.io/online-dating-mentorship, made from the page itself. Online Dating Mentorship # Better matches. Stronger text game. Dates you actually want. Build a profile that attracts women you're excited to meet. Learn what to say, how to flirt, and when to turn the conversation into a date. Get Online Dating Coaching Weekly or daily private coaching Private coach DM AI Photos included Work directly with an experienced coach on your photos, profile, and messages. Find out what's holding you back, and get personal help changing it. You run the apps. We help you get better results from them. Weekly coaching: **$300/week** · Daily coaching: **$600/week** Save with a four- or twelve-week plan. Join online. ## See what changes when a coach knows what to look for. Watch a profile review and a real messaging breakdown. See what the student was overlooking, what the coach recommends, and how the changes apply to the women he wants to meet. At first I just wanted more matches. After a few weeks, we started optimizing around the type of women I actually wanted to meet. That was a much bigger improvement. I'm not just getting more attention now. I'm much more interested in the women giving it to me. **Gavin R.** *Memphis, USA* ## How many women have you matched with, and never met? You finally match with someone you're excited about. You think through the opener. Rewrite the reply. Try to keep the conversation interesting without coming on too strong. She replies. You reply. Then the conversation goes quiet. Or you keep talking for days, never quite sure when to ask her out. You got her attention. But you never got to meet her. And if you're barely getting matches in the first place, you don't even get the chance to work on that part. **This is where personal coaching makes a difference. We work on the part that's keeping you from the dates you want.** ### Barely getting matches? Find out what your photos and profile are communicating, and what needs to change to make a stronger impression. ### Getting matches you're not excited about? Work on how you present yourself to the women you actually want to meet. Keep your standards part of the conversation. ### Watching promising conversations die? Bring the messages. Get coaching on the flirting, replies, and missed chances that are worth examining. ### Texting for days without getting a date? Learn when to suggest meeting and how to turn interest into a plan. ### Going through the same cycle every few weeks? Get a coach who knows what you've tried, sees where you're getting stuck, and helps you change your approach. You don't need to spend another month wondering which part is the problem. Bring it to someone who knows what to look for. Get Online Dating Coaching ## Get her attention. Build the attraction. Make a plan. ### Build a profile that gives her a reason to match. You may have plenty going for you in person. Your profile needs to communicate it. Your coach reviews your photos, their order, your prompts, and the impression they create together. Work on presenting yourself in a way that makes women curious about the man behind the profile. AI Photos are included, with your photo set arranged on your first call. Better presentation starts with better decisions about what she sees. ### Make the conversation feel like flirting. You've matched. Now give the conversation somewhere to go. Learn to open with confidence, be playful, show interest, and respond to what she's giving you. Bring the exchanges where you went blank, played it too safe, or found yourself asking question after question. Work through what you could say differently and how to make the interaction feel more personal. Get better at creating attraction in the conversation you're actually having. ### Know when to ask her out. A good conversation can turn into another week of texting if you never suggest meeting. Learn to recognize mutual interest, make the invitation, and handle the details that turn "we should" into a plan. Your coach can also help you prepare for the date and work through what happens afterward. The aim is to get you meeting women you're excited to spend time with. Getting matches wasn't really my problem. Keeping conversations alive was. My coach went through my messages and showed me the same mistakes happening over and over. Once I started fixing them, way more conversations actually started moving toward dates. **Hugo M.** *Edinburgh, UK* Get Online Dating Coaching ## Your profile. Your conversations. A coach who gets into the details. "Is this the photo I should lead with?" "She replied with this. Where do I take the conversation?" "We've been talking for three days. Should I ask her out?" "I'm getting matches, but rarely with women I want to meet." Bring those questions. Your membership gives you private coaching, help between calls, and the photos and training to support what you're working on. ### Private calls focused on getting you better results. Work through your profile, messages, and dates with a coach who gets to know your situation. Ask the questions you've been overthinking. Find the patterns you've been missing. Get specific advice on what to do next. Choose weekly calls with High-Purpose or daily calls with High-Society. ### A private coach DM for what comes up between sessions. A new match sends something you don't know how to answer. A conversation changes direction. You're unsure how to follow up after a date. Send your coach the context. You have somewhere to bring the questions that come up while you're using the apps, alongside your scheduled calls. ### AI Photos to strengthen your first impression. Better photos are part of the program. Your coach arranges your photo set on your first call and works with you on how to use it in your profile. Put your new photos to work in a profile that gives women a reason to meet you. ### A live group workshop every week. Bring questions, work through examples, and see how other members handle situations you may run into yourself. Your private Slack community keeps you connected with men who are also working on their dating lives. ### The full training library. Get into the material that matters to your current sticking points. Use it alongside your coaching to work on your profile, conversations, and the steps that lead to a date. Bring your questions back to your coach. ### Accountability that keeps you taking action. Agree on what to work on. Use the feedback. Bring back what happened. Your coach follows the work with you, so a frustrating conversation doesn't have to become another two weeks away from the apps. I had a match I really didn't want to screw up and had no idea how to respond to something she sent. I screenshotted the conversation, sent it to my coach, and we worked through what was actually happening. Having someone there while the conversation was still live was incredibly useful. **Kyle B.** *Madison, USA* My coach kept telling me the profile strategy was fine but the photos were limiting everything else. Once we added the new AI photos, it was like we finally had something worth optimizing. Better photos brought in better matches, and then we could work on everything after that. **Dylan S.** *Boise, USA* Get Online Dating Coaching ## How closely do you want to work with your coach? Choose weekly private coaching to keep improving with regular guidance. Choose daily private coaching for more frequent help with the matches, conversations, and dates happening in your life. High-Purpose ### A private coaching call every week. Support for what happens between them. Work on the part of online dating that's costing you results. Review your profile, bring the conversations you want help with, and get a clear direction for the week ahead. Put the coaching into practice, then return with what happened. Your private coach DM gives you a place for questions between sessions. For men who want consistent personal coaching while making time to use what they learn. Plan Price Weekly rate Savings Weekly $300/week $300 4 weeks $1,140 $285 $60 · 5% 12 weeks $3,240 $270 $360 · 10% Everything included: - One private coaching call each week. - Private coach DM. - AI Photos, arranged on your first call. - One live group workshop each week. - Private Slack community. - Full training library. - Practice goals and accountability with your coach. [Join High-Purpose ›](https://coldapproach.io/pay/embedded?plan=online-dating-mentorship-high-purpose) $300 a week, charged today and every week after until you cancel. To cancel, email hello@coldapproach.io and tell us why. Weekly option: Billed weekly · No long-term contract. My problem with dating apps was always consistency. I'd use them hard for three days, get frustrated, and disappear for two weeks. Knowing I have a coach looking at my results every week keeps me actually running the system long enough to learn what works. **Landon P.** *Providence, USA* High-Society ### A full hour with your coach. Every day. A new conversation to work through. A profile change to review. A date coming up that you want to get right. High-Society gives you a private, 60-minute coaching session each day to work on what matters now. Use the time to improve your presentation, get into the details of your messages, prepare for dates, and review what happened afterward. Priority coach DM replies within 24 hours give you additional support between sessions. For men making online dating a priority and wanting more frequent personal guidance. Plan Price Weekly rate Savings Weekly $600/week $600 4 weeks $2,280 $570 $120 · 5% 12 weeks $6,480 $540 $720 · 10% Everything included: - One private, 60-minute coaching call each day. - Priority coach DM replies within 24 hours. - AI Photos, arranged on your first call. - One live group workshop each week. - Private Slack community. - Full training library. - Practice goals and accountability with your coach. Book your daily sessions through the same booking link. Unused days do not roll over. [Join High-Society ›](https://coldapproach.io/pay/embedded?plan=online-dating-mentorship-high-society) $600 a week, charged today and every week after until you cancel. To cancel, email hello@coldapproach.io and tell us why. Weekly option: Billed weekly · No long-term contract. I chose High-Society because I wanted to move fast, and having a call every day completely changed the pace. I'd make a change, run the apps, see what happened, and be talking to my coach about it again the next day. There was basically no time wasted wondering what to do next. **Rowan F.** *Tulsa, USA* From the co-founder ## You can spend months working on the wrong thing. If your photos aren't getting you matches, a better opener won't give you much to work with. If you already get good matches but the conversations go nowhere, changing every photo may leave the real problem untouched. And if women keep replying but you never suggest meeting, you can spend a lot of time texting without improving your dating life. That's the problem with trying to figure everything out alone. You can put in the hours and still keep working on the wrong part. A good coach helps you find what deserves your attention. Show us the profile. Bring the conversation. Tell us what happened on the date. We can get into the details, challenge the assumptions, and work on the changes that make sense for you. Then you have someone to come back to as new matches and situations come up. That's why I built Online Dating Mentorship around personal coaching, with AI Photos and the training to support it. I want your profile to do you justice. I want you to be able to flirt with a woman you're attracted to without second-guessing every reply. And I want more of those conversations to become dates you're looking forward to. You bring the willingness to take action. We bring the coaching to help you get more from it. Best, **Matthew** Co-Founder & Head Coach Get Online Dating Coaching ## What men say after working with us ### He stopped letting conversations drag on. I used to text women for days because I never knew when to actually ask them out. We worked on recognizing when there was enough interest and moving things forward sooner. I'm spending a lot less time having pointless conversations that never leave the app. **Jared T.** *Jacksonville, USA* ### He changed his lead photo. His matches picked up. I was convinced my best photo should be first because it was the one I personally liked most. My coach immediately told me to move it. We changed the order, tested it, and my matches picked up. I'd probably still be using the wrong lead photo if I was doing this myself. **Caleb H.** *Cleveland, USA* ### The coaching continued beyond his private sessions. I joined for the 1-on-1 coaching, but the community ended up being way more useful than I expected. I can see what other guys are testing, bring questions to the workshops, and learn from problems I haven't even run into yet. **Nikolai V.** *Brisbane, Australia* ### As one part improved, they worked on the next. What surprised me is that we haven't been working on the same thing every week. At first my photos were the problem. Then it was my profile. Then we realized I was losing good matches in the messages. As each part improved, my coach kept finding the next thing holding the whole system back. **Mason G.** *Oklahoma City, USA* ### He kept refining his profile as the results came in. The biggest difference is that my profile isn't something I build once and then forget about anymore. Every week we look at what's actually happening, change something, and see how women respond. My profile now is completely different from where we started. **Aaron W.** *Indianapolis, USA* ### He started recognizing what was happening. At the beginning I needed my coach to tell me why every conversation died or which part of my profile wasn't working. Now I catch a lot of it myself. I understand what to look at, what to test, and when something actually needs changing. I'm finally starting to think about online dating like a system instead of just swiping and hoping. **Silas C.** *Ottawa, Canada* ## Give yourself more to look forward to when you open your phone. A match you're excited to answer. A conversation that feels like flirting. A date you're looking forward to. That's what all the work on your profile and messages is for. Likes 12 You have 12 new likes. See who Likes You. Likes **Jessica likes you!** Match to continue the conversation Tonight Sarah Can’t wait to see you tonight **The Press Lounge** Tonight at 7:00 PM Matches 6 You have 6 new matches! Messages **Hinge** Emily sent you a new message **Tinder** Hannah sent you a new message **Bec** Looking forward to it! **Maya** I had a lovely time with you and hope to see you again ## Different starting points. Personal coaching where it mattered. **Aaron**, 27 ### He thought dating apps just didn't work for him. Aaron was barely getting matches and assumed his looks were the problem. His coach helped him rebuild how he presented himself online, giving him more chances to meet women and work on the conversations that followed. Read Aaron's story › **Sebastian**, 32 ### He got the match. Then lost the conversation. Women initially seemed interested, but Sebastian's conversations kept going quiet. Weekly reviews helped him recognize the patterns in his messages and work on how to handle them. Read Sebastian's story › **Luca**, 35 ### He wanted his conversations to become dates. Luca could match and text, but the exchanges kept stretching for days without a plan to meet. His coach helped him recognize when to move things forward and turn more of that interest into dates. Read Luca's story › **Nathan**, 30 ### Getting the first part right opened up the next. Nathan joined thinking he needed better messages. The work started with his profile, then moved to his conversations and date conversion. Weekly mentorship helped him connect the pieces and understand what needed attention as his results changed. Read Nathan's story › Get Online Dating Coaching ## Build the options to date on your terms. Meet more women. Enjoy dating. Be selective about whom you want to see again. You may want to date casually and explore different connections. **# field-reports** 146 **Jake** 3:19 AM So far this week I’ve had a date from online lined up on Sunday (21), Monday (25), and then last night (28) and I pulled all 3 of them ❤️ **3** 🔥 **3** 👍 **2** 💥 **1** You may meet someone you're excited to keep seeing, and decide you're ready to stop looking. **# wins** 203 **Derek** 3:16 AM Think I’ve found my person! Gl to everyone in the group :) ❤️ **1** **Matthew** 3:18 AM @Derek, details please! **Derek** 3:21 AM Hahaha had a match on tinder who I got to talk to over a week, we went for a pretty long date after both our work to mini golf & a sunset dinner on Tiburon facing SF! We both have similar life trajectories and I’m going to be taking it exclusive 🔥 **3** ❤️ **1** **Matthew** 9:24 AM @Derek This is awesome. Congrats. Amazing how things happen so fast **Derek** 9:24 AM haha yeah 3 dates in 😂 I think I’ve gotten over 100 matches in the last week 🔥 **4** The point is to give yourself more choice about where your dating life goes. ## Your next step is simple. 1 ### Choose your coaching. Pick High-Purpose for weekly private coaching or High-Society for daily private coaching. Select your plan and join online. 2 ### Meet your coach. We email you to arrange your first session and set up your access. 3 ### Bring your profile and messages. Show your coach what you're working with and tell him whom you want to meet. Your first call establishes where to start and gets your AI Photos arranged. 4 ### Put it into practice. Make the changes. Use the apps. Bring back the questions, conversations, and dates. Your coach works with you as your dating life develops. Get Online Dating Coaching ## Frequently asked questions **### I barely get matches. Can this help?** Yes. We can start with what women see before they ever speak to you. Your coach reviews your photos, prompts, and overall presentation to identify what needs attention. AI Photos are included, so improving your photo set can be part of the work from the beginning. You don't need a busy inbox before you can benefit from coaching. **### I already get matches. What would we work on?** Turning more of the right matches into dates. Bring your messages and work on starting conversations, flirting, responding to what she sends, and recognizing when to suggest meeting. If you're getting dates already, you can also work on preparation, what happens during them, and how you follow up. **### Do you help once I have the date?** Yes. Use your coaching to prepare for a date, discuss what happened afterward, and work on the next step. The conversation with your coach can follow what's happening in your dating life. **### Why choose coaching instead of a course?** A course gives you material to learn. Personal coaching gives you someone to work through how it applies to you. Your coach can examine your actual profile, review your messages, ask about the details you left out, and help you decide what to do differently. You also get the full training library, so you can study the material alongside your coaching. **### What's the difference between High-Purpose and High-Society?** High-Purpose includes one private coaching call each week and private coach messaging. High-Society includes one private, 60-minute call each day and priority DM replies within 24 hours. Both include AI Photos, a weekly live group workshop, the Slack community, and the full training library. Choose High-Purpose for regular weekly guidance. Choose High-Society when you want more frequent personal coaching and can make time to use it. **### What happens on the weekly call?** Bring your profile, messages, recent dates, and the questions you want answered. Your coach reviews what you've been working on, helps you understand what's happening, and identifies the next thing to change or practice. The focus follows your situation and the women you want to meet. **### What does "daily call" mean in High-Society?** High-Society includes one private, 60-minute coaching session each day. Book each session through the same booking link. Use it for profile work, message reviews, date preparation, or whatever you're working on with your coach. Unused days do not roll over. **### What AI Photos are included?** Your membership includes AI Photos, with your photo set arranged on your first coaching call. Your coach also helps you work on how the images fit into your profile, alongside your photo order, prompts, and overall presentation. **### Can I send my coach screenshots of conversations?** Yes. Send them through your private coach DM. Include the relevant exchange and what you want help with. Your coach can then work from what was actually said. High-Society includes priority DM replies within 24 hours. **### Which dating apps can we work on?** Bring the profiles and conversations from the apps you use so we can understand where you need help. If you want coaching around a particular platform, contact us before joining to confirm that it fits the support you're looking for. **### Do you run the apps for me?** You operate your accounts and send the messages. Your coach works with you on the photos, profile, conversations, and decisions that affect your results. For a service that handles the app management, messaging, and date coordination, see **Online Dating Concierge**. **### Do I need an application call?** No. Choose your membership and purchase online. We then email you to arrange your first coaching session and set up your access. **### How quickly can I start?** After you join, we email you to arrange your first session. If you need coaching before a specific date or event, contact us to check availability before purchasing. **### Is there a minimum commitment?** The weekly option is billed weekly with no long-term contract. You can also choose a four-week or twelve-week plan at a reduced weekly rate. Select the plan that fits how long you want to work with your coach. **### How do I cancel?** Contact **hello@coldapproach.io** for help cancelling your membership. Your selected plan's billing and cancellation terms apply. **### What if I only want my profile rebuilt once?** **Profile Makeover** is designed for a one-time profile rebuild that you then use yourself. Choose Online Dating Mentorship when you want personal coaching on your photos, profile, conversations, and dates as you use the apps. ## Start dating women you're excited about. Better photos. A profile that does you justice. Conversations you know how to move forward. Work with an experienced coach on turning more interest into dates with women you actually want to meet. Bring your profile. Bring your messages. Let's get to work. Get Online Dating Coaching › **High-Purpose:** Weekly private coaching · $300/week **High-Society:** Daily private coaching · $600/week Save 5% with a four-week plan or 10% with a twelve-week plan. AI Photos · Private coach DM · Weekly workshop · Community · Training library Join online. ### Need help choosing? Tell us where you're getting stuck and how closely you want to work with a coach. [Email hello@coldapproach.io](mailto:hello@coldapproach.io)