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# Stop guessing what went wrong. Know what to do next.

Private 1-on-1 Dating Coaching

One call: $250

Packages from $150 per call

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Choose your call or package and book online.

The conversation that died. The date that stayed friendly. The approach you keep talking yourself out of.

Work through it with an experienced dating coach. Bring your real situation, get direct feedback, and leave with specific changes to put into practice.

Book one call for what's happening now, or choose a package and keep developing your game as new situations come up.

60-minute private sessions · Matched with the right coach · Book on your schedule

Thousands of men coached.

## See what a coach notices that the student missed.

Watch a real situation become a specific coaching conversation: what happened, what the student overlooked, and what to work on next.

He brought the messages. His coach showed him what he'd missed.

I brought in a text conversation that had completely died and thought I knew where I messed up. Within ten minutes my coach pointed out the exact message where the tone changed and explained why. I'd been focused on the wrong thing the entire time.

**Marcus T.** *Sacramento, USA*

## What keeps going wrong with women?

You don't need to know the answer before you book.

Bring what's happening. Your coach helps you work out what deserves your attention.

### You see her. Then you find a reason not to approach.

You tell yourself the timing is wrong. You don't know what to say. By the time you've thought it through, she's gone.

Work on the hesitation and uncertainty that keep stopping you before the conversation starts.

### You can talk to women. Making it feel like more is the difficult part.

The conversation is pleasant. She's friendly. But nothing romantic develops.

Get coaching on flirting, delivery, and showing interest without forcing the interaction, or hiding it completely.

### You get the number or match. Then lose the conversation.

You reread the messages, wonder what changed, and start second-guessing every reply.

Bring the actual exchange. Your coach helps you examine what happened and what to do differently.

### You get dates. You're not getting the results you want.

Maybe the first date feels like an interview. Maybe there's chemistry, but you don't know how to move things forward. Maybe you rarely get a second date.

Work through the details instead of relying on "I thought it went well."

### You already have experience. You want to get past your current level.

You don't need another explanation of how to say hello.

Bring the situations you find difficult. Get a perspective that challenges your assumptions and helps you sharpen the parts of your game that need work.

### There's one woman or relationship you keep overthinking.

You've asked friends. Read advice. Replayed the same conversation.

Bring the situation, what has happened, and what you want. Work through your choices with a coach rather than collecting another set of conflicting opinions.

Your situation. Your level. Coaching on what matters to you now.

## Bring the context. Be ready to use the feedback.

### This is for you when…

You want a direct conversation about what's happening in your dating life. You're prepared to share the relevant details, consider what you might be missing, and put the coaching into practice.

### This isn't about finding a magic line.

The work is understanding your situation and improving how you handle it, not memorizing a script to use regardless of how she responds.

You bring something real to work on. We help you decide what to change.

## More effort won't fix the mistake you haven't spotted.

You can approach more women, send more messages, and go on more dates, while getting stuck in the same place.

Effort matters.

So does knowing where to put it.

**You're searching for a better opener.** But the conversation may be breaking down after she's already interested in talking.

**You're trying to write the perfect text.** But you may be overlooking what happened before you exchanged numbers.

**You're convinced the date went well.** But there may be moments worth examining that you never thought to question.

A coach doesn't have to agree with your first explanation of the problem.

He helps you look at the details, challenge the assumption, and find a more useful next step.

## Bring it in. Work through it. Put the coaching to use.

### 01 · Bring the real situation.

Your messages, profile, recent approaches, dates, or a problem that keeps coming back.

Tell your coach what happened and what you're trying to achieve. You don't need to arrive with a diagnosis.

### 02 · Get direct coaching.

Your coach asks questions, examines the details, and helps you identify what you're overlooking.

Work through what you could do differently and how to apply it to the situations you're facing.

### 03 · Leave with a clear focus.

Take the feedback into your next approach, conversation, or date.

With a package, use later calls to review what happened, refine the work, and address the next sticking point.

**Before your session:** Send the relevant context ahead of time so the call starts with what you want to work on.

**After your session:** Your coach sends a short recap of the key points and what to focus on next.

From the co-founder

## Don't spend another month trying to fix the wrong thing.

When I was learning game, I could replay an interaction for days.

I'd decide the opener was wrong and look for a better one.

But what if she'd already responded well to the opener?

What if the problem was what I did next?

Maybe I stopped flirting. Maybe I started asking question after question. Maybe I missed the moment when she was giving me a chance to move things forward.

I could spend weeks changing the wrong part.

That's why I believe in personal coaching.

Not advice for a hypothetical guy in a completely different situation.

A conversation about what happened to you.

You bring the messages, the date, the approach, or the decision you're struggling with. We look at the details and work through what deserves your attention.

One call gives us time to focus on the problem in front of you.

A package gives you room to apply the coaching, bring back what happened, and keep working as your dating life develops.

You don't need to commit to a weekly program to get an experienced coach's perspective.

Book the time. Bring the situation. Let's work on it.

Best, **Matthew** Co-Founder & Head Coach

## What men say after working with us

He wanted to prepare for the date, not analyze it afterward.

I had a date coming up with a woman I really liked and booked a call because I didn't want to get in my own way. We talked through what I normally do on dates, where I tend to play it too safe, and what to focus on. I went into the date way more relaxed because I actually had a plan.

**Elias M.** *Louisville, USA*

The problem wasn't the one he'd been trying to fix.

I spent half the call explaining the thing I was convinced was ruining my results. My coach basically told me, 'That isn't your problem.' He showed me what was actually happening instead. I'd probably still be trying to fix the wrong thing if I hadn't booked the call.

**Quentin R.** *Albuquerque, USA*

Already experienced. Still something important to work on.

I'm not a beginner and I wasn't looking for someone to teach me how to approach. I had one very specific pattern that kept showing up with women I was already attracting. The conversation was actually advanced and specific to what I was doing, which is exactly what I wanted.

**Roman K.** *Cincinnati, USA*

He put the feedback to work, and brought back the results.

The value wasn't any single call. It was being able to try what we discussed, come back with what happened, and keep refining it. By call five we were working on completely different problems than call one.

**Dorian M.** *Knoxville, USA*

What I like about having multiple calls is that I don't have to start from zero every time. My coach already knows what I've been working on, what we changed, and what happened when I tried it. We can pick up from there and keep refining instead of spending half the call explaining my entire dating history.

**Adrian V.** *Brooklyn, USA*

I kept having dates that seemed to go well, but nothing romantic ever happened. We walked through my last two dates and my coach spotted the same pattern in both. I finally understood why women were treating me like a friend.

**Devon P.** *Charlotte, USA*

I booked the call because my matches had dropped and I couldn't figure out why. We went through my profile photo by photo and prompt by prompt. There were a few obvious problems I had completely stopped noticing because I'd looked at the profile so many times.

**Malik J.** *Tucson, USA*

We started with my approaches. Once those improved, the next issue became what I was doing after getting the number. A few calls later we were working on my dates. Every time one part got better, we moved to the next thing.

**Wade S.** *Fresno, USA*

I booked the call because I was seeing someone I genuinely liked and wasn't sure how to handle where things were going. We talked through the situation, what I wanted, and the conversation I needed to have with her. It was useful having someone look at it objectively instead of asking friends who all had different opinions.

**Theo W.** *Portland, USA*

I bought five calls thinking I'd use them for one problem. Instead, fixing that problem exposed the next one. Having the calls already there kept me moving instead of disappearing for another six months.

**Judah P.** *Tulsa, USA*

The best part was that I didn't leave with another hour of dating theory in my head. I left with two specific things to change and one thing to stop doing. I knew exactly what I was going to work on the next time I went out.

**Isaiah B.** *Buffalo, USA*

## One call for what's happening now. A package for what comes next.

Every session is a **private, 60-minute coaching call**.

Choose a single session to work through your current situation. Choose a package to practice between calls, review the results, and keep getting guidance as new challenges come up.

Matched with the right coach · Flexible scheduling · Packages valid for one year

1 call Get a clear next step. Bring your immediate sticking point, upcoming date, messages, or profile. Use the session to work through what's happening and what to do differently. One private, 60-minute call.

$250

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5 calls Work on it. Try it. Come back with what happened. Give yourself room to apply the feedback rather than leaving it at one conversation. Return with the results, ask the questions that come up in practice, and keep refining the work. $210 per call Save **$200** compared with five individual calls at $250.

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10 calls Recommended for ongoing progress Develop more of your game. The first thing you work on may not be the last. Use your sessions across approaching, attraction, texting, dates, and relationships as your experience grows and your priorities change. $190 per call Save **$600** compared with ten individual calls at $250.

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25 calls Best per-call rate Keep expert feedback available throughout the year. A larger balance of private sessions for men who want to keep refining their game. Bring recurring challenges, new situations, and the decisions you'd rather work through with a coach. $150 per call Save **$2,500** compared with twenty-five individual calls at $250.

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Every call is 60 minutes. There is no required weekly schedule. Call packs are valid for one year from purchase.

Book available times around your life, with room between sessions to put the coaching into practice.

## Choose your calls. Book your time. Bring your situation.

1

### Choose a call or package.

Complete your purchase online.

2

### Receive your booking link.

Your booking link arrives by email, along with your call balance.

3

### Schedule your coaching.

Choose an available time that works for you. We match you with the right coach for what you want help with.

Send the relevant context ahead of the session so you can get into the work.

## Frequently asked questions

**Is this a coaching session or an application call?**

This is a **paid, private coaching session**.

You do not need to apply first or have a sales conversation before purchasing. Choose a call or package, pay online, and use the booking link to schedule your coaching.

The session is for working on your dating life.

**What can we work on?**

Approaching, flirting, conversation, texting, dating apps, dates, and relationships.

You can bring one immediate situation or a problem you keep encountering. Your coach helps you decide what deserves the most attention during the session.

**Can we review screenshots or my dating profile?**

Yes. Bring the actual messages, profile, or other relevant context.

That gives your coach something specific to examine rather than relying only on your summary of what happened.

**What happens on my first call?**

You explain the situation, what you want, and what you've already tried.

Your coach asks questions, looks at the details, and works through what to change or focus on next. Afterward, you receive a short recap of what you covered and your next focus.

**Do I need to know exactly what my problem is?**

No.

You need to be able to describe what's happening and what you'd like to change. Helping you examine the problem is part of the coaching.

**Should I book one call or a package?**

Choose **one call** for a current situation you want to work through, or to experience the coaching before purchasing more sessions.

Choose **a package** when you want room to apply the feedback, return with the results, and work on more of your dating life over time.

Packages also reduce the price per call.

**I already have experience. Is this still useful?**

Yes. The coaching is based on your situation and level.

You may already approach comfortably but want help with attraction, texting, dates, or a recurring relationship issue. You don't need to spend the session covering basics you already understand.

**How long do I have to use a package?**

Call packs are valid for **one year from the purchase date**.

There is no required weekly schedule. Use your booking link to choose available times within that period.

**Which coach will I work with?**

We match you with the right coach for the areas you want help with.

Tell us what you're working on so the match is based on your needs.

**How are Calls different from Mentorship?**

**Calls** give you scheduled private coaching when you choose to book it. You can buy one session or a package without committing to a weekly rhythm.

**Mentorship** includes weekly coaching, ongoing messaging, team access, and the training library. It is the option for more continuous support and accountability.

**Should I choose Calls or Bootcamp?**

Choose **Calls** to discuss your situations, review messages or profiles, and get feedback you can apply afterward.

Choose **Bootcamp** for in-person coaching while you're out meeting women. Your coach observes the interactions and gives feedback you can use while you're still in the field.

## Don't take the same unanswered question into your next conversation.

Bring the messages. The date. The approach you keep avoiding. The situation you can't stop replaying.

Work through it with a coach who knows what to look for, and leave with something specific to put into practice.

One call for the problem in front of you. A package to keep building.

One call: $250 · Packages from $150 per call

60-minute private sessions · Matched with the right coach

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